{"id":774,"date":"2020-11-26T19:59:02","date_gmt":"2020-11-26T18:59:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/acpd.org.al\/?p=774"},"modified":"2022-04-22T10:18:17","modified_gmt":"2022-04-22T09:18:17","slug":"essay-dhuna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/?p=774","title":{"rendered":"Ese: Dhuna"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Frida Keqa<\/p>\n<p>22 vjece nga Tirana<\/p>\n<p>MSc, Administrim i Sh\u00ebrbimeve Sociale<\/p>\n<p>Vullnetare e QSHPZH-s\u00eb<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>E ulur p\u00ebrball\u00eb realitetit si p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb filmi\u2026<br \/>\nE meq\u00eb jemi dembel\u00eb, frikacake e te pand\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm ,hajde merremi me \u00e7far\u00eb na del p\u00ebrpara\u2026p\u00ebr shembull me grat\u00eb. Hajde ti bashkohemi turm\u00ebs me komente, me \u201clike\u201d e ofendime. Hajde ti rikthehemi prap batutave patriarkale si \u201cgruaja, moll\u00eb e sherrit \u201capo perlave moderne \u201cgruaja fut shejtanin ne shishe\u201d Hajde ti faj\u00ebsojm\u00eb grat\u00eb p\u00ebr plumbat e burrave e hajde t\u00eb justifikojm\u00eb krimin me burr\u00ebri. Hajde t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendim minifundin e vajz\u00ebs, k\u00ebmish\u00ebn e zb\u00ebrthyer jasht\u00eb normave apo provokimin me kast\u00a0 .Hajde ta quajm\u00eb fajin Grua e viktim\u00ebn Burr\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Historikisht ,padrejt\u00ebsi e q\u00ebllimt\u00eb, vajzat dhe grat\u00eb jan\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb heshtje me fjal\u00ebt \u201cti s\u2019di, e ti s\u2019do mundesh kurr\u00eb\u201d n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb trajtoheshin dhe frym\u00ebzoheshin njer\u00ebzisht me pyetjen \u201cti \u00e7far\u00eb mendon\u201d e \u201cti do ja dal\u00ebsh\u201d. Ende sot ,grat\u00eb qortohen dhe p\u00ebrpunohen sikur t\u00eb ishin f\u00ebmij\u00eb naiv\u00eb brenda nj\u00eb trupi t\u00eb rritur , me iden\u00eb irracionale q\u00eb gruaja, n\u00eb natyr\u00eb, ka lindur t\u00eb udh\u00ebhiqet\u00a0 dhe t\u00eb udh\u00ebzohet nga nj\u00eb burr\u00eb. Grat\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb leje nga burrat q\u00eb I rrethojn\u00eb \u2026leje p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb , leje p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar, leje p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur , leje p\u00ebr t\u00eb ditur, leje p\u00ebr tu dukur t\u00eb pavarura dhe t\u00eb forta. P\u00ebrsa kohe grat\u00eb do ndalohen ,kontrollohen dhe censurohen t\u00eb flasin, t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vendosin vet\u00eb\u00a0 p\u00ebr veten dhe mbi veten , p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa burrat do vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb luajn\u00eb me historin\u00eb, ta shkruajn\u00eb e rishkruajn\u00eb n\u00eb d\u00ebm t\u00eb grave.<br \/>\nGjinia \u00ebsht\u00eb ve\u00e7se nj\u00eb short natyror, nj\u00eb moment kaq rast\u00ebsor e I pavarur nga vullneti I njeriut, sa do ishte \u00e7menduri(dhe \u00e7menduri \u00ebsht\u00eb) ta kthejm\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7mim mat\u00ebs lirie, n\u00eb mat\u00ebs vlere, n\u00eb avantazh.<\/p>\n<p>Me shum\u00eb se njer\u00ebz , fatkeq\u00ebsisht , ne funksionojm\u00eb si programe t\u00eb mir\u00ebmenduara dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet ofenduese , e padrejt\u00eb dhe mizorisht e padenj\u00eb se si jeta jon\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizohet vet\u00ebm nga nj\u00eb organ gjenital.<\/p>\n<p>Prandaj, n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend ku pretendohet se njer\u00ebzit vriten me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, nj\u00eb shikim, nj\u00eb vend n\u00eb parkim, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rryp toke a p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb nj\u00eb VAJZE, n\u00eb fakt nuk vret as fjala ,as shikimi, as parkimi, as toka e as vajza\u2026vret burr\u00ebria dhe egoja e s\u00ebmur\u00eb e k\u00ebtyre individ\u00ebve q\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb gar\u00eb absurde t\u00eb tipit \u201cun\u00eb jam m\u00eb shum\u00eb trim se ti\u201d un\u00eb kam me shume muskuj se ti\u201d apo \u201cun\u00eb kam m\u00eb shum\u00eb pushtet se ti\u201d jet\u00ebn e\u00a0 vejn\u00eb t\u00eb fundit n\u00eb list\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk ka asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb heshtur! K\u00ebtu ka shum\u00eb pun\u00eb p\u00ebr tu b\u00ebr\u00eb, shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr vetulla t\u00eb rrudhura e p\u00ebr z\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb\u2026p\u00ebrndryshe historia do p\u00ebrs\u00ebris\u00eb veten, fajtor\u00ebt e viktimat!!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Frida Keqa 22 vjece nga Tirana MSc, Administrim i Sh\u00ebrbimeve Sociale Vullnetare e QSHPZH-s\u00eb &nbsp; E ulur p\u00ebrball\u00eb realitetit si p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb filmi\u2026 E meq\u00eb jemi dembel\u00eb, frikacake e te pand\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm ,hajde merremi me \u00e7far\u00eb na del p\u00ebrpara\u2026p\u00ebr shembull me grat\u00eb. Hajde ti bashkohemi turm\u00ebs me komente, me \u201clike\u201d e ofendime. 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