Ada Xh., 18 vje\u00e7, \u00ebsht\u00eb gjasht\u00eb jav\u00eb shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe sapo ka qen\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb konsult\u00eb n\u00eb qendr\u00ebn PO n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Ajo po planifikon t\u00eb kryej nj\u00eb abort sa m\u00eb shpejt q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNdihesha e tmerruar kur kuptova se isha shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Ndihesha v\u00ebrtet e s\u00ebmur\u00eb dhe kisha nj\u00eb shije t\u00eb hidhur n\u00eb goj\u00ebn time, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e dija q\u00eb ishin simptoma, por kisha pasur ciklin menstrual si zakonisht. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb kur testi rezultoi pozitiv, u trondita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cN\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, un\u00eb mendoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb faji i t\u00eb dashurit tim. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i madh se un\u00eb dhe ai m\u00eb tha se kishte ndjekur nj\u00eb procedur\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ai nuk mund t\u00eb m\u00eb linte shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Ai gjithashtu m\u00eb tha se ishte testuar p\u00ebr IST-n\u00eb [infeksione seksualisht t\u00eb transmetueshme ] dhe m\u00eb tregoi rezultatin e testit p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb v\u00ebrtetuar se ai nuk kishte asgj\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguli q\u00eb ne nuk kemi nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorim prezervativ\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cP\u00ebr muajt e par\u00eb nuk mbeta shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mendova se ishte mir\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, kur un\u00eb thirra t\u00eb dashurin tim p\u00ebr t\u2019i th\u00ebn\u00eb, ai nuk dukej i befasuar, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb un\u00eb mendoj se ai duhet t\u00eb kishte g\u00ebnjyer t\u00ebr\u00eb koh\u00ebn. Un\u00eb mund t\u00eb \u2018 ta faj\u00ebsoj\u00eb at\u00eb edhe pse \u2013 Un\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb qen\u00eb kaq i but\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cT\u00eb kryesh abort \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vendim i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Edhe vet\u00eb fjala ting\u00ebllon e tmerrshme. I dashuri im m\u00eb pyeti se si mund t\u00eb jetoja me veten duke kryer nj\u00eb abort, ose si do t\u00eb ndihesha sikur prind\u00ebrit e mi t\u00eb kishin menduar t\u00eb m\u00eb abortonin mua. Ai pranoi t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonte t\u00eb paguante, por ai nuk d\u00ebshironte t\u00eb ishte rretherrotull, kur t\u00eb ndodhte sepse ai mendon se \u00ebsht\u00eb e gabuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cPor un\u00eb nuk mendoj k\u00ebshtu; \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb kem nj\u00eb bebe. Un\u00eb jam n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb nga e H\u00ebna n\u00eb t\u00eb Premte, dhe thjesht nuk jam gati. Nuk mund ti them as prind\u00ebrve sepse do t\u00eb shokoheshin.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cPrind\u00ebrit mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb dyshime se un\u00eb kam fjetur me t\u00eb dashurin tim dhe mamaja ime e di q\u00eb un\u00eb kam marr\u00eb leksione t\u00eb edukimit seksual n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe mendoj se hiqet sikur nuk e di. Nuk m\u00eb duket se ka d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb flasi hapur p\u00ebr k\u00ebto \u00e7\u00ebshtje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cUn\u00eb gjithashtu nuk dua t\u00eb p\u00ebrballoj nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb vet\u00ebm. Sapo i tregova t\u00eb dashurit tim p\u00ebr shtatz\u00ebnin\u00eb, ai filloi t\u00eb m\u00eb shmanget. N\u00ebse ai do t\u00eb m\u00eb injoroj\u00eb kur un\u00eb jam disa jav\u00eb shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ka shanse q\u00eb ai t\u00eb m\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb pran\u00eb n\u00ebse do ta kem f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb duhet ta largoj nga jeta ime tani. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb sepse askush tjet\u00ebr nuk e di se jam shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cUn\u00eb shkova n\u00eb qendr\u00ebn PO, sepse dikur n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn nga or\u00ebt e m\u00ebsimit erdh\u00ebn dy vajza q\u00eb prezantuan qendr\u00ebn rinore PO dhe vajzat ishin shum\u00eb miq\u00ebsore dhe me nj\u00eb informacion shum\u00eb t\u00eb besuesh\u00ebm, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb kur u ktheva n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi fillova t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb qend\u00ebr dhe vendosa t\u00eb kontaktoj me ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cQendra PO m\u00eb mir\u00ebpriti dhe doktori m\u00eb ofroi nj\u00eb vend i cili ishte shum\u00eb i rehatsh\u00ebm dhe konfidencial. Un\u00eb nuk i kam th\u00ebn\u00eb asnj\u00eb prej miqve t\u00eb mi; t\u00eb gjith\u00eb mund t\u00eb flasim leht\u00eb p\u00ebr faktin se ne b\u00ebjm\u00eb seks me t\u00eb dashurin, por jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbetur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb ose p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb abort. Kjo her\u00eb ishte ndryshe.T\u00eb flisja me mjekun ishte m\u00eb e leht\u00eb nga sa mendoja para se t\u00eb hyja n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e saj sepse ajo ishte m\u00eb shum\u00eb se miq\u00ebsore me mua dhe m\u00eb k\u00ebshillonte p\u00ebr opsionet q\u00eb kam p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb vendosja t\u00eb kaloja aborti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cTi di gjith\u00e7ka rreth asaj q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb por \u00e7\u00ebshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb se ti mendon se kjo gj\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb ndodhi ty\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ada Xh., 18 vje\u00e7, \u00ebsht\u00eb gjasht\u00eb jav\u00eb shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe sapo ka qen\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb konsult\u00eb n\u00eb qendr\u00ebn PO n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Ajo po planifikon t\u00eb kryej nj\u00eb abort sa m\u00eb shpejt q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur. \u201cNdihesha e tmerruar kur kuptova se isha shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Ndihesha v\u00ebrtet e s\u00ebmur\u00eb dhe kisha nj\u00eb shije t\u00eb hidhur n\u00eb goj\u00ebn<\/p>\n<\/i>Details<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":178,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=177"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":179,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177\/revisions\/179"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/178"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}