Arsyet q\u00eb ekziston stigma ndaj abortit n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe t\u00eb rr\u00ebnjosura thell\u00eb n\u00eb kultur\u00ebn ton\u00eb . Si pasoj\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj stigme dhe n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme grat\u00eb nuk ndihen t\u00eb lira t\u00eb vendosin n\u00ebse duan t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb ose jo nj\u00eb shtatz\u00ebni t\u00eb paq\u00ebllimshme , dhe pasoja q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb kjo stigm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shtyrja e grave drejt aborteve t\u00eb pasigurta q\u00eb n\u00eb jo pak raste sjell humbjen e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre. Kjo gj\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb dhe jemi ne t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb ata q\u00eb mund ta nisim ndryshimin , nga vetja , nga edukimi i grupit ton\u00eb shoq\u00ebror\u00eb, i familjes ton\u00eb, e m\u00eb tej i gjith\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb sepse ne mundemi ta sjellim k\u00ebt\u00eb ndryshim .
Ne ligj\u00ebrisht g\u00ebzojm\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrprerje t\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb ,un\u00eb e mb\u00ebshtes at\u00eb dhe mendoj se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb duhet ta mb\u00ebshtesim!
Rastet q\u00eb ne, t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, diskutojm\u00eb qoft\u00eb edhe me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin p\u00ebr abortin nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe gjithmon\u00eb merret si shkas\u00eb ndonj\u00eb histori q\u00eb ne d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb. Pak koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb nj\u00eb shoqja ime e cila tashm\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn e grave p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrprerje t\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb, m\u00eb tha :
\u201cTek komuniteti im nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e cila ishte martuar q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re dhe kishte nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb, sic e shikoja un\u00eb nga jasht\u00eb, kishte gjithashtu edhe nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, por nj\u00eb dit\u00eb rast\u00ebsisht mora vesh q\u00eb ajo kishte abortuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb her\u00eb, n\u00eb fillim e stigmatizova, e gjykova p\u00ebr keq n\u00eb mendjen time, nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu fare veprimi dhe nuk arrija ta konceptoja dot se si nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb\/grua mund t\u00eb b\u00ebnte k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, pa pasur kurrfar\u00eb arsye. Kaluan pak koh\u00eb dhe rast\u00ebsisht e takoj vet\u00eb vajz\u00ebn dhe me la t\u00eb kuptoja se martesa e saj nuk ishte edhe aq e lumtur sa dukej nga jasht\u00eb, e takoj p\u00ebrseri nj\u00eb dit\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dhe m\u00eb tha se familja e burrit t\u00eb saj, ishte shtys\u00eb e aborteve q\u00eb kishte realizuar vet\u00ebm sepse f\u00ebmij\u00ebt do t\u00eb ishin t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb fem\u00ebrore dhe duke qen\u00eb se ata kishin tashm\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb duhej t\u00eb kishin edhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb me patjet\u00ebr. \u201cM\u00eb thon\u00eb se ne shqiptar\u00ebt duam ta kemi nj\u00eb djal\u00eb me patjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar emrin e familjes.\u201d- shprehu ajo. Nga kjo gj\u00eb arrita t\u00eb kuptoj se vajza nga frika se mos stigmatizohej nuk tregonte as arsyen dhe as nd\u00ebrprerjet e shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb q\u00eb kryente, por ishin thashethemet e banor\u00ebve t\u00eb lagjes prej nga m\u00ebsuam p\u00ebr t\u00eb.\u201d
Pas k\u00ebsaj historie dhe shum\u00eb diskutimeve t\u00eb tjera rreth t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs ligjore q\u00eb ne kemi n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer abort , t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb ruajtur privat\u00ebsin\u00eb ton\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb tilla , solidaritetin q\u00eb ne duhet t\u00eb tregojm\u00eb ndaj grave etj, shoqja ime arriti t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb q\u00ebndrimin e saj ndaj nd\u00ebrprerjes s\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb rinj\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb .
Ne t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb mesa duket nuk aktivizohemi mjaftuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr kauza t\u00eb tilla sepse shpesh besohet se q\u00ebndrimi i njeriut p\u00ebr tema t\u00eb tilla nuk ndryshon . Un\u00eb mendoj se ndryshon !!
\u00c7el\u00ebsi p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb si fillim edukimi i t\u00eb rinjve , dhe m\u00eb pas , p\u00ebrpjekja jon\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar k\u00ebt\u00eb stigm\u00eb ndaj abortit duhet t\u00eb shtrihet edhe n\u00eb breza t\u00eb tjer\u00eb ku secili nga ne t\u00eb diskutoj\u00eb lirsh\u00ebm n\u00eb familjen e tij\/saj p\u00ebr tem\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb bindi ata p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar q\u00ebndrimin e tyre . K\u00ebshtu hap pas hapi , stigma ndaj abortit mund t\u00eb zbehet n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb .
Nj\u00eb shkrim nga K.Dh, vullnetare pran\u00eb QSHPZH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Arsyet q\u00eb ekziston stigma ndaj abortit n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe t\u00eb rr\u00ebnjosura thell\u00eb n\u00eb kultur\u00ebn ton\u00eb . Si pasoj\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj stigme dhe n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme grat\u00eb nuk ndihen t\u00eb lira t\u00eb vendosin n\u00ebse duan t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb ose jo nj\u00eb shtatz\u00ebni t\u00eb paq\u00ebllimshme , dhe pasoja q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb kjo<\/p>\n<\/i>Details<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":157,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[103,7,16,15,17,5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/156"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=156"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/156\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":158,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/156\/revisions\/158"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/157"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=156"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=156"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=156"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}