M\u00ebsuesja e shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme Nevjana Mu\u00e7a nga Tirana thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb i leht\u00eb t\u00eb diskutimi p\u00ebr edukimin seksual n\u00eb shkolla. \u201cN\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn, un\u00eb u kam k\u00ebrkuar student\u00ebve t\u00eb diskutojn\u00eb tema t\u00eb caktuara, dhe m\u00eb jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur se baballar\u00ebt e tyre nuk i lejojn\u00eb q\u00eb ata t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk has kaq shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi tani, megjith\u00ebse fatkeq\u00ebsisht tabut\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00ebekzistojn\u00eb, \u201cthot\u00eb Mu\u00e7a. \u201cTheksojm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrit, m\u00ebsuesit dhe student\u00ebt q\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb sa m\u00eb t\u00eb informuar te jen\u00eb kur fillojn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale, aq m\u00eb t\u00eb mira dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme do t\u00eb jen\u00eb k\u00ebto marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie dhe po aq m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm, t\u00eb pjekur dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur do t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb k\u00ebta t\u00eb rinj.\u201d
Oriana Osmani, nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb nga Tirana, thot\u00eb se d\u00ebshironte q\u00eb vajza e saj tani 18-vje\u00e7are \u201ct\u00eb dij\u00eb sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur p\u00ebr edukimin seksual\u201d. Edhe pse ishte e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb kur vajza e saj ishte m\u00eb e re, ajo vendosi t\u00eb mos fikte TV kur u shfaq nj\u00eb sken\u00eb seksuale n\u00eb nj\u00eb film, dhe n\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj u p\u00ebrpoq t\u00eb fliste hapur p\u00ebr ato q\u00eb po shfaqeshin n\u00eb ekran. \u201cNuk kam pasur ndonj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb me n\u00ebn\u00ebn time, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ishte e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr mua,\u201d thot\u00eb Osmani. \u201cUn\u00eb besoj se do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn time t\u00eb flas\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj p\u00ebr seksin kur t\u00eb b\u00ebhet prind.\u201d
M\u00ebsimet e sh\u00ebndetit seksual dhe riprodhues t\u00eb prezantuara n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn e Marjo Rabiaj n\u00eb Ballsh e frym\u00ebzuan at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb st\u00ebrvitej si edukator i bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebve. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb vullnetar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb organizat\u00eb rinore (Qendra PO) q\u00eb promovon \u00e7\u00ebshtje rinore, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb stilin e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme, edukimin seksual dhe pjes\u00ebmarrjen e t\u00eb rinjve. \u201cM\u00eb p\u00eblqen ta shp\u00ebrndaj fjal\u00ebn mes bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebve t\u00eb mi se \u00e7do i ri ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme t\u00eb sigurt, dhe se edukimi seksual na ndihmon ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb at\u00eb,\u201d thot\u00eb Rabiaj.
Diskutimet e sinqerta n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb gjithashtu ndihmuan Rabiaj dhe e dashur\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb flisnin m\u00eb hapur p\u00ebr seksin dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e tyre, thot\u00eb ai. \u201cNe kishim kaq shum\u00eb pyetje, t\u00eb cilat tani e kan\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjen,\u201d thot\u00eb ai. \u201cNdihemi m\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb tani, bisedojm\u00eb hapur, dhe un\u00eb mendoj se kemi nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme seksuale tani dhe po mbrojm\u00eb dhe ndihmojm\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin t\u00eb mbetemi t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
M\u00ebsuesja e shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme Nevjana Mu\u00e7a nga Tirana thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb i leht\u00eb t\u00eb diskutimi p\u00ebr edukimin seksual n\u00eb shkolla. \u201cN\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn, un\u00eb u kam k\u00ebrkuar student\u00ebve t\u00eb diskutojn\u00eb tema t\u00eb caktuara, dhe m\u00eb jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur se baballar\u00ebt e tyre nuk i lejojn\u00eb q\u00eb ata t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/p>\n<\/i>Details<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":145,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[103,16,15,17,5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=144"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":146,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144\/revisions\/146"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/145"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=144"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=144"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/acpd.org.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=144"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}