T\u00eb zbulosh se jeni shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e frikshme, por p\u00ebrpiquni t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni t\u00eb qet\u00eb. Do t\u00eb jeni mir\u00eb dhe ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb mund t’ju ndihmojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse jeni shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb keni k\u00ebto mund\u00ebsi:<\/p>\n
PRIND\u00cbRIMI <\/strong>– lindja dhe rritja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n [read_more id=”1″ more=”Read more” less=”Read less”]<\/p>\n ND\u00cbRPRERJE E SHTATZ\u00cbNIS\u00cb<\/strong> – p\u00ebrfundimi i shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb. (Vet\u00ebm n\u00eb klinika t\u00eb lincensuara nga Ministria e Sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe Mbrojtjes Sociale)<\/p>\n N\u00ebse mendoni se mund t\u00eb zgjidhni t\u00eb b\u00ebheni prind\u00ebr, keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr kujdes para lindjes p\u00ebr t’u siguruar q\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm gjat\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb. N\u00ebse po mendoni t\u00eb nd\u00ebrprisni shtatz\u00ebnin\u00eb, lini nj\u00eb takim sa m\u00eb shpejt q\u00eb t\u00eb mundeni. Nd\u00ebrprerja e shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e sigurt, por ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreziqe sa m\u00eb gjat\u00eb t\u00eb prisni si dhe\u00a0 mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrprisni shtatz\u00ebnin\u00eb me kalimin e koh\u00ebs. \u00c7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb t\u00eb vendosni t\u00eb b\u00ebni, shkoni menj\u00ebher\u00eb te nj\u00eb mjek n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ai t’ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n Biseda me dik\u00eb p\u00ebr ndjenjat tuaja mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithashtu e dobishme. N\u00ebse mundeni, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ide v\u00ebrtet e mir\u00eb t\u00eb flisni me partnerin dhe prind\u00ebrit tuaj p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb – ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ata t\u00eb kujdesen p\u00ebr ju dhe t\u00eb duan t’ju ndihmojn\u00eb. Ju gjithashtu mund t\u00eb flisni me nj\u00eb an\u00ebtar tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb familjes, t\u00eb dashurin\/t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn, shok, k\u00ebshilltar ose nj\u00eb t\u00eb rritur tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb cilit i besoni. Zgjidhni dik\u00eb q\u00eb do t’ju d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb, do t’ju mb\u00ebshtes\u00eb, do t\u00eb respektoj\u00eb privat\u00ebsin\u00eb tuaj dhe nuk do t’ju gjykoj\u00eb ose do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t’ju b\u00ebj\u00eb presion p\u00ebr vendimin tuaj.<\/p>\n Askush nuk duhet t’ju b\u00ebj\u00eb presion p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb ndonj\u00eb vendim p\u00ebr shtatz\u00ebnin\u00eb tuaj, pavar\u00ebsisht se \u00e7far\u00eb vet\u00ebm ju e dini se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e duhura p\u00ebr ju.<\/p>\n Si t’u them prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb mi se jam shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n Edhe pse mund t\u00eb duket e frikshme, biseda me prind\u00ebrit tuaj mund t’ju ndihmoj\u00eb v\u00ebrtet. Ata mund t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr opsionet tuaja me ju dhe t\u00eb sigurohen q\u00eb t\u00eb merrni kujdesin sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor q\u00eb ju nevojitet.<\/p>\n Shum\u00eb vajza t\u00eb reja shqet\u00ebsohen se prind\u00ebrit e tyre do t\u00eb t\u00ebrbohen dhe m\u00ebrziten, por jo gjithmon\u00eb ndodh k\u00ebshtu. N\u00ebse mundeni, p\u00ebrpiquni t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb hapur dhe t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb. Filloni duke u th\u00ebn\u00eb prind\u00ebrve tuaj se ju keni besim tek ata dhe keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00ebn dhe mb\u00ebshtetjen e tyre. Shumic\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs, ata thjesht duan t\u00eb sigurohen q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb sigurt. N\u00ebse prind\u00ebrit tuaj m\u00ebrziten, mund t’u duhet pak koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t’u qet\u00ebsuar.<\/p>\n Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb t\u00eb tronditur ose t\u00eb zem\u00ebruar, dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptuesh\u00ebm. Nuk ka asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ditur se si do t\u00eb ndihen prind\u00ebrit tuaj n\u00ebse nuk flisni me ta p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Mund t’ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb flisni t\u00eb gjeni nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme kur mund t\u00eb flisni privatisht dhe t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb shp\u00ebrqendrime. N\u00ebse ndiheni v\u00ebrtet nervoz ose keni frik\u00eb t\u00eb flisni me prind\u00ebrit tuaj, gjithmon\u00eb mund t’i k\u00ebrkoni nj\u00eb miku ose nj\u00eb an\u00ebtari tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb familjes q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb aty me ju gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, ju do t\u00eb keni mb\u00ebshtetje pavar\u00ebsisht se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh.<\/p>\n N\u00ebse v\u00ebrtet ndiheni sikur nuk mund t\u00eb flisni me prind\u00ebrit tuaj, provoni t\u00eb flisni me nj\u00eb t\u00eb rritur tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb cilit i besoni (si tezja ose xhaxhai, gjyshi, motra m\u00eb e madhe, infermierja e shkoll\u00ebs etj.). N\u00ebse jeni t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar se t’u tregoni prind\u00ebrve se jeni shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb mund t’ju v\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb rrezik, tregojini nj\u00eb m\u00ebsuesi, infermiereje ose mjekut, ose nj\u00eb t\u00eb rrituri tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb cilit i besoni.<\/p>\n Drejtuar vajzave t\u00eb reja!<\/strong><\/p>\n P\u00ebrgatiti:<\/strong><\/p>\n Greis Osmani<\/strong><\/p>\n Edukatore bashk\u00ebmoshatare<\/strong><\/p>\n K\u00ebto shkrime jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur dhe botuar n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb projektit : \u201cPromotion of Safe from SGBV platform among young people in Albania\u201d mb\u00ebshtetur nga Unicoms Switzerland GmbH-Sofia Branch.<\/strong><\/p>\n [\/read_more]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u00eb zbulosh se jeni shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e frikshme, por p\u00ebrpiquni t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni t\u00eb qet\u00eb. Do t\u00eb jeni mir\u00eb dhe ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb mund t’ju ndihmojn\u00eb. N\u00ebse jeni shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb keni k\u00ebto mund\u00ebsi: PRIND\u00cbRIMI – lindja dhe rritja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. [read_more id=”1″ more=”Read more” less=”Read less”] ND\u00cbRPRERJE E SHTATZ\u00cbNIS\u00cb – p\u00ebrfundimi i shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb. 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